|Looking After Number One - Maria A Smith|
I'm back, and happy to report I'm feeling much better than I did a few days ago. How you might ask? Selfish as it sounds, I've been looking after number one. Yes - really, and it called for drastic action, as it was the only way I knew I could get myself back to good health.
I simply retreated. Took a couple of days holiday from work, and went away to somewhere I knew I'd be nurtured... I stepped back, and instead of looking after everyone else, spent time getting myself back to good health. I've been doing too much, theres been too much going on all at once.
I said in my last blog post I'd be making changes, and I am. Its pointless trying to implement lots of new things overnight, I'd just get overwhelmed, and end up more stressed and tired so I'll begin slowly. One of the first things I'm going to do is set myself some limits, and stick to them! Writing wise, this means doing the best I can in the window of time I have, and when the time is up, I'm done, I must finish up, and go to bed. I need to sleep. I know I need to make a conscious effort to rest - really rest. Should I write daily? My gut feeling is not to do so, instead a better plan for me is to write, or do writerly things, every other day.
I've made a list of the things I want to continue with, which include my current WIP, but also, I'd like to try my hand at non fiction too. Any suggestions on how to get started would be most welcome!
I enjoy going to my writing group, its lovely to be amongst like minded folk, its also an excellent opportunity to receive valuable feedback on my novel draft. You really do learn much from critiquing other writers work. However, over the summer, I'll be missing several weeks, because I've decided to do some other writerly things, like meeting up with twitter buddies, and hopefully attending one or two writerly events.
I'll blog a couple of times a week, and honestly that is as much as I can do on my writing. We'll see how it goes.
Now, you may, or may not be wondering how things panned out with the 15k in May challenge I took part in last month. Well, it was a challenge. I found it very difficult, primarily because I chose to edit my novel draft, and I didn't actually write very many words. Instead I chopped 10,400 words!
The thing is, on reflection, I've used the time well, I've got rid of words that did nothing useful, they didn't move the story forward, and some didn't make any sense at all, I'd over written, and repeated lots of information. Those words are gone now. I am left with a lot less, and its scary. Can I make this story work? I know I want to try, so we'll see.
Taking part in the challenge was a good thing, I made some new writing buddies along the way, and the online support on twitter, and other writers blogs was helpful and friendly. I think everyone achieved something, or learnt something useful along the way. I think you always do on these sorts of things.
Normal service will be resumed on Sunday, when I'll post up a list of new goals for the week ahead.
Until then, enjoy the rest of this week.
|Feet Up - Maria A Smith|